Paul has not been feeling right since his biopsy. He was having pain off and on in his
abdomen. Sunday it started to get even
worse. I noticed he was not eating very
much (not that he does anyway). By
Monday (yesterday), I knew that he needed medical attention. He was trying to be strong and tell me he
would be fine. Of course, I didn’t
listen and called the oncologist nurse.
She contacted a nurse in the Acute Care Clinic at Huntsman who
immediately called me back. She told
me to bring Paul right away.
Paul did not argue with me.
He just got in the car and I drove us to Huntsman. He was in pain the whole way. He felt every bump! He started to dry heave a lot. I knew that he was getting worse. By the time we got there he was in severe
pain!
Paul got out of the car as quickly as he could and headed
for the bathroom. Mind you, he wasn’t
moving super fast because he was walking very hunched over. As I was waiting for him outside the men’s
restroom, I could hear him dry heaving.
I really started to get worried for him and my tears started to
flow. I started to sob right there in
the hallway! Finally a male doctor
walked by and I asked him to go in and check on Paul. This cute elderly couple walked by at the
same time and started to hug and console me.
The doctor came out and said he his fine. He is just dry heaving. Well, that didn’t seem fine to me! I knew he was in severe pain!
Paul managed to come out a few minutes later. We went up to the second floor and checked
in. They got him back in a room in about
10 minutes. The doctor who met with us
was very nice. The nurse accessed his
port and attempted to get some pain meds him in. It took awhile, but they finally got the
right dosage and he started to relax. At
that point, I started to relax….it is so incredibly difficult to watch someone
you love suffer so much! I even went
into the bathroom and called a friend who recently lost her husband to
cancer. I asked her if she ever had
meltdowns while they were at Huntsman.
She said that she did on a regular basis. It somehow made me feel better knowing that I
am not alone in having an emotional breakdown!
I was grateful when our three oldest children arrived at the
hospital. We were able to be strong for
each other. We even managed to laugh
together. It seemed easier to cope with
what was going on.
After a CT scan, it was determined that Paul has a small
bowel obstruction. They do not know if
it is caused by a tumor or a stricture (they can’t tell). Anyway, they admitted him to Huntsman
Hospital to treat him with IV fluids, pain meds and complete bowel rest. Evidently, 80% of all obstruction resolve on
there own.
I need to interject here that Paul had some good pain
meds…he was very “loopy”. He had us all
laughing with some of the comments he was making! The doctors even found him to be rather
amusing…
It was nice to finally get Paul settled in a hospital
room. I was so exhausted! I felt like I had run a marathon! It is amazing what stress can do to a
body. I went home last night, got our
younger daughters from our friends house and basically crashed!
I arrived at the hospital this morning to find a much
improved husband. He had not had any
pain meds since last night. He said he
felt good…the pain was gone. When the
doctors came in they were very surprised to see how well he was doing. They decided to put him on a clear liquid
diet today and then if he does well try him on regular food tomorrow.
He did quite well today with the clear liquid diet. I hope tomorrow goes as well! They are planning on keeping Paul for a
couple of days to make sure he can eat before he leaves…I am just praying that
it all works out.
The surgical team met with us today and told us that they
will not operate on Paul unless it is a “do or die” situation because he is
considered very high risk because of his cancer. They said the complications could be very
bad…
I see TPN (form of intravenous
feeding-used for patients who cannot or should
not get their nutrition through eating) in our near future again. I just think it is too hard on Paul’s bowels
to have to digest the food without a stomach.
He has to eat constantly and therefore he is in constant pain
(obviously, the bowel obstruction was worse than his normal pain).
Once again we are being blessed with help from others! Thank you all for everything you have done
and are doing for us. You are truly our
angels!
I am so tired…I am heading to bed!
You are all in our prayers!
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